5. Show sincere knowledge of just how your actions hurt the individual
What exactly are you apologizing for? Why can you have the need to produce amends – through the hurt person’s perspective? She actually isn’t interested in your reasons behind making amends. She cares about whether or not you recognize exactly just how your actions impacted her.
That is empathy. It’s putting yourself into the hurt person’s footwear. Stop saying, “I don’t learn how to apologize, it is so hard for me personally, we can’t do so, how can I make amends? This really is therefore psychological and frightening that We, We, We, me, me personally, me me personally!) for me!” (look at all. Continue reading “Just how to Apologize and also make Amends whenever you were pt.2 that is wrong”