Then i can’t see us being in each other’s lives if that is how she communicates.
When you look at the brief minute, I felt We asserted my boundaries, plus it felt empowering. But we all messed up and could have dealt along with it far better. More about that later on.
That we cultivated over months of getting to know each other was destroyed in a few seconds it took to write our texts from a triggered place as you can imagine, that triggered her abandonment anxiety, and suddenly, a beautiful connection.
Our reptilian child minds had been facing down, both feeling unsafe, and now we could not any longer hear one another.
Coronavirus would not let us hook up, so we had been stuck with all the worst kind of interaction, mobiles. Continue reading “We texted her that it had been not okay to treat me this way and then get quiet”
