Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I recently know personally i couldnt just let the lady glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry lady, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my solution to attempt to speak to her, but if she sets the record right because of the gf, hopefully she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a problem towards the man being the matter, that is what’s going on.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july
As well as, just just what can you wanna bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another actually just a coincidence?
Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am
I am able to realise why you’ll believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We see the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, perhaps not the ex-BF relationship that is current. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a grip on her very own actions, and overlook the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. Their relationship with brand new GF is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls don’t need to be buddies at all. It can you should be an additional url to the man for the LW, who is wanting to cut emotional ties.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july
Thats a point that is good sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I accustomed be friends using this band of dudes whom accustomed have such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then it had been realised by me personally ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. Therefore the girls had been all people that are just normal, you realize, wished to determine if they’d a boyfriend or not…….
Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july
Yea. Its love, when that takes place enough times- what’s the denominator that is common? YOU MIGHT BE!!
I do feel harmful to this GF that is new. She deserves to own a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW because this woman is being told by the man a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july
I’m bad on her behalf too, but she needs to watch out for by herself. Its difficult being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but that is why a lot of people go into these with their eyes wide open. Oh and the man has to prevent dropping “But I have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. I keep imagining him carrying it out the means the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and come back to me” if you have a GF,
Katie 17, 2012, 10:27 am july
Yea, its like whenever i was in senior high school and me personally and my boyfriend would split up every other week, in which he would “accidently” text me personally or something like that just therefore we would fight and acquire straight back together.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and obtain right right straight back together”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 10:05 am july
I’ve said right here a whole lot, if the man whips out of the word that is“crazy operate one other method. I understand therefore men that are many use that word to hide because of their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why individuals would phone some body crazy into the beginning. I recently state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The actual fact on it, makes me think you may be the one that likes to stir the muck that you put a “crazy” label.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?
Rilooyah 17, 2012, 4:44 pm july
Therefore true! When the” that is“crazy down, Im operating one other means. I do believe it had been stated above- once you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common always YOU, friend.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july
To be honest, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this happened to her she most likely could be upset about this too, and yet she continues to respond to this dudes calls and even though he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of that bull shit.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july
Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk for this girl because your simply likely to cause drama. You need to just recognize he’s maybe not your boyfriend and also that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie 17, 2012, 10:35 am july
This is certainly a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.
So LW, if you really do respect their relationship and wish them happyness, keep them alone!! Like eljay (I enjoy you, eljay) said, some body has to end up being the adult in this example. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.
Painted_lady July 17, 2012, 2:17 pm
Amen bestie – we trust you about talking to your gf. That knows just just what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their chatting many times, but as the relationship is none of these company, the fact that the LW therefore the brand new gf have met now i do believe enables the LW some freedom. If I had held it’s place in a situation where a pal brought some body around that I’d found out about and wished to be friends with (I’m likely to assume that the LW desires that? ) and it also went horribly, i may touch base and go, hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly. She does not fundamentally need to say, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend happens to be saying that is___ in my experience and he’s the main one calling, and he explained you had been fine using this, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went defectively, I became beneath the impression you had been ok with this being buddies, but i simply understood I’m maybe maybe perhaps not ok with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july
I’dn’t speak to the gf about that. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And simply to inform you you respect her relationship? I’d think you had been bullshitting me personally and head that is playing. Just just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex lover you don’t desire to hear them alone from him for a while, and then leave. Seriously they probably won’t work-out them work that out themselves because you are still in the picture (which doesn’t do great things for a new relationship), but let.
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:39 am
Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is so uncomfortable. Everybody pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay if your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually become OK with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of 36 months.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july
